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Visit

Today, Memorial Day,  our friends Ed and Debbie stopped by for a visit to meet our new addition. They brought food and Ed cooked us some outrageously good hamburgers on the backyard grill. We also had fresh-squeezed juice from oranges Leila and I pilfered from a state park visit yesterday.

Later on, Leila, Leo and I went to Target to buy a few needed household supplies. It was the first time Leo was fussy in public; he whined a bit in his car seat atop our shopping cart. Usually he goes straight to sleep when in motion- in the car, being carried in his car seat, the stroller, etc. He probably had a little bit of an upset stomach. By the time we got back home, he was fine.

Card From Work

My co-workers made a really nice card for me and Leila, welcoming our new addition.  Of course lots of jokes about how babies aren't quite like computers! I'm blessed to work with so many cool and really nice people!  

 

 

 

(Thus far, all the no sleep predictions haven't come true. Knock wood.)

 

Also, the production gave us a really generous donation to the ongoing 'feed/clothe/raise Leo fund', which we appreciate sooooooo ridiculously much.  :)

Easter 2011

We hosted Easter lunch with our friends Seidi and David. Coincidentally, Seidi is Estonian, they live just a few blocks from us and they are expecting their daughter at the same time we're expecting our son… yet we never met them before until very recently. Another of those things that makes you go, "small world!"

David and I wrapping Easter eggs in onion skins and tinfoil. Everything but the tinfoil is the traditional Estonian way of coloring Easter eggs. 

Putting the eggs on the stove to boil.

Leila sets the table for Easter lunch. The food was traditional Estonian fare.

For dessert, Leila made Pasha. It was delicious!

The easter eggs came out pretty interesting! The uncolored patterns were created by adding bits of pasta under the onion skin. 


EDIT: Just a few hours after leaving our home, our friend Seidi went into labor. We understand they are now proud parents! Our best wishes and congrats go out to them. Maybe it was the Estonian food that did the trick!

Over Twenty Years Later…

A funny little story played itself out for me not too long ago. The whole thing began over twenty years ago…

I visited my Aunt Sandra in Boston, Massachusetts in April of 1987, during spring break of my first year of art school in Dover, New Jersey.

I remember it was a great trip; I’d never been to Boston before, and it was awesome visiting my Aunt and checking out the town. I remember strolling around Cambridge during a beautiful spring that year.  It was also amazing for me to see where my Aunt worked at the publishing company Houghton Mifflin.

I remember us taking a trip via ferry to Martha’s Vineyard. Also, I remember walking by myself in Boston, going into an old graveyard, looking up and realizing I was standing on Paul Revere’s grave. A second later, I felt like I was punched in the nose- and I actually bled on his tombstone! 

Other than being smacked by Paul Revere’s ghost, it was a great visit, and during it, I had a camera of some sort and snapped a bunch of photos. Of course, these were the days long before digital cameras, so when I was ready to leave, I left the film rolls with my Aunt so she could later develop them and send the prints to me back in Jersey.

And that’s where something went off the rails.

I must have given my Aunt my dorm address at the art school. The dorms were really an old farm that dated back to the early 1800′s. Some students lived in a big house converted to dorms called ‘The Mansion’, while I lived in another building called ‘The Carriage House’ because in the old days that’s what it had been. (Despite the names, life in the Carriage House was actually a bit more luxurious than at ‘The Mansion’ because we had slightly more individual space, and *gasp!* our own kitchen, as opposed to hotplates in our rooms. Ah yes! The glory days of youth!)

But at some point I moved out of the dorm and in with my long-haired ‘hippy’ friend Mark at his parent’s house in Hackettstown, NJ. Once there, we proceeded to turn the house into our recording studio; the basement den became the recording room, various rooms became booths and control, and we were soon recording crazy all-night sessions of Mark’s band ‘Perhaps?’ and later our own recording project called ‘The Zoom’.  (Someday, the master tapes of all that stuff WILL surface again, once they fall out of whatever pile of stuff they got lost under! There’s a number of songs we recorded I really want to hear again, including a tune called "Just The Other Day" featuring me fumbling on drums, bass and harmonica, and my buddy Mark’s quite good guitar and keyboard playing.)

But you can just imagine how our crazy living arrangement eventually ended up; even Mark’s freewheeling parents got fed up with screeching guitar amps and a full drum kit shaking the house at all hours, and pretty soon we had to shut things down and I needed to find a proper place to live again. I ended up moving in with my to-this-day great friend Mike Milo and some other guys after we found our own house to rent in Randolph, NJ.

Right. So what of the Boston photos?

At some point during my moving around, the letter from Boston was forwarded to Mark’s house (my former temporary address), and he set them aside, meaning to bring the envelope to school. But somehow that never happened, and the letter, much like the long lost master tapes, ended up buried under a stack of something. In the shuffle of school and life, it got forgotten about completely. We graduated in 1989, I moved to California in 1990, and Mark and I lost touch as tends to happen with even the best of friends.

 

 

…fast forward twenty-some years later, and my friend Mark is making a move from New Jersey to North Carolina -now with his own wife and kids- and as tends to happen with major moves, piles of things that have sat wherever they sat for 20-some years get shifted, and… voila! Out plops a letter addressed to me from my Aunt, still unopened after twenty years.

During much of this interim, I hadn’t heard from Mark in ages, but thanks to the magic of the Internet, we’d recently managed to reconnect via email. So Mark says to me, "Oh, by the way, I found this letter addressed to you from twenty years ago." Of course he’d opened it- who wouldn’t? "It’s from your Aunt. Pictures from Boston and stuff.  You want it?" 

….!

So he mails the letter to me, and like opening a minor time capsule sent twenty years ago, I finally got the letter and pictures from Boston in 1987!

 

Here’s the letter, and a few of the photos: (Click on these to see any image enlarged, and/or to view them all as a slideshow.)

 

The original envelope, complete with Mark’s 20 years later comment.

 

 

The accompanying letter- I also love the dated look of the 24 hour photo label.

 

Mark’s letter- classic understatement! I still await the comics and MP3s of the recordings Mark managed to save. The other half of the missing stash I have… somewhere. Maybe in another 20 years…

 

Probably on Martha’s Vineyard.

 

Okay, this photo of me waited 20-plus years to come to light, so please,  go ahead and laugh!

 

My Aunt- I think we were at the dock on the way to Martha’s Vineyard

 

… and there it is! Moments after I took this photo I was gushing blood all over Mr. Revere’s grave. Weird, but true.

 

Overlooking Boston. I wonder how much of the skyline has changed in the twenty years since.

 

My Aunt and a friend of hers.

 

Okay I looked it up: this car ferry between Edgartown and Chappaquiddick (along with On Time I and III) is still in service.

 

My Aunt, and again, I’m not sure exactly where. Possibly on or on the way to Martha’s Vineyard.

 

Definitely Martha’s Vineyard.

 

Heh. Those ‘old’ cars were new then.  The Hampshire House in Beacon Hill. My Aunt reminds me that we went there to see the original bar that Cheers is based on- I remember that!

On Sunday, January 23rd, it was great to have several close friends over for breakfast/brunch to celebrate Leila's Birthday. It's been an annual tradition of ours for several years. Above, me with our friends Mall, Marcus, Kristi (Marcus's wife), Kristi (Kalmer's wife), Kalmer, Reet and Sam. 

Kristi and Kalmer, Helena and Mall.

Ed and Debbie, Reet and Leila

Leila with Kristi and Marcus

Mall and Kadri

Babies naturally gravitate to Leila, here with our friend Kaja's son.

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Happy New Year Everyone!

We had a great time seeing the New Year arrive at the home of our friends Kristi and Marcus, along with several other guests of theirs. 

…And We’re Back!

We had a beautiful Christmas vacation at a cabin rented by friends in Cold Springs, CA. (Just a stone's throw up Highway 108 from Long Barn, CA where I originally thought we were headed). 

We set out on Christmas Day morning and drove up the Grapevine on Interstate 5, and then through the Central Valley on Highway 99. We were headed into the above canyon near Castaic, CA, while calling to wish my Mom a Merry Christmas back home in Virginia.

California scenery never fails to amaze- this near Fort Tejon. 

 

Below Bakersfield, a small dust storm rolled in. Leila grabbed the camera just in time to capture its arrival. Within seconds the cars ahead of me nearly vanished. Luckily, visibility didn't get much worse and we were soon through it. (Some dust storms in this region completely blind motorists, and have in the past lead to deadly multi-car pile ups. 

The first three hours of the drive were uneventful. The last three we drove much of through pouring rain, then as we reached the mountains north of Yosemite in the Stanislaus National Forrest, we encountered heavy fog -at times I almost couldn't see the white line beside the road and had to take it down to a snail's pace- and finally snowfall. As we reached Cold Springs, where the cabin was, the road was covered with snow and ice, and visibility was very low. At one point my brand new CRV was skidding down an ice covered road, me with very little control, but I managed to guide us in for a safe landing at the cabin. (Our friends Irene,Tofique and their three kids and au pair were already there). I was literally minutes from mandatory tire chains. Our friends Kristi and Kalmer arrived about two hours after us, and couldn't have made it without chains.

We awoke the next day to the above scene at the cabin- winter wonderland!

Everyone warm and toasty around the cabin's dining room table. 

 

Tofique and Irene's twin sons made me into their favorite track to race their toy cars. 

 

Leila, Irene and Kristi. 

We spent a great couple of days hanging out in the mountains. Everyone went snow-sledding on the first day at a local slope. (No, I didn't go sledding, and Leila really can't do that sort of activity these days. ;) ) On the remaining days,the others took their kids skiing, while Leila and I did our own thing. 

Yikes! My brand new car covered in snow!

The perfect arrangement: Hubby shovels, wife helps out by taking pictures of Hubby shoveling! Cleaning the ice from the windows without a scraper was even more fun!

 Leila and I went for a walk around the village. 

At the sledding slope. Behind me, the landscape demonstrates the origins of the Estonian flag: blue sky, black forrest, white snow.

 

Following our host's car (in Kalmer's SUV) through snow-covered roads on the first day. It was still icy enough for chains at this time, but very quickly after this the roads were nice and cleared.

 

Leila enjoying a winter hike. 

The kids built a small snowman on the cabin's back porch. 

 

Who says you can't have a White Christmas in California? We managed it very nicely!

The drive home on Tueday morning, December 28th was exactly how we prefer drives to be: scenic and uneventful. We did stop at the outlet stores in Tulare, CA though!

Little Christmas 2010

Another year and another Little Christmas Party with the girls. We celebrate it with Estonian traditional Christmas food and the fun part is the White Elephant gift exchange. And so the tradition continues for yet another year…

Aquarium

Our friends Kairi and Sam really spoil us! Last weekend, they gave us an awesome present: a Fluval Edge designer Aquarium. It's really beautiful, like a floating 3D cube of water with no visible surface. The filters, pump and lighting are all neatly hidden by the unique stand. These photos definitely don't do it justice; it's a work of art.

 


It's the perfect addition to our living room. After several days wait for the water to filter, Sam and I went to a local Aquarium store and I bought eight fresh water fish.


One of my favorites: Red-tailed black shark. 

I'm not sure what kind this is, so I'll just refer to him as: fish. It's hard to see from the picture, but he's a mixture of green scales, yellow face, and orange fins.

 

Our Angelfish, and toward the back (orange with black stripes) a Clown Loach. The bottom is still a little barren- we need a few more plants, and some larger rocks and a piece of coral or two. And maybe a sunken ship. And a pirate's treasure chest. Or… maybe not!

Again, I don't know what type of fish, but I like her bright pink mohawk.

 

We also had six shrimp to start with. All but one, the biggest, disappeared after the first day. One jumped out of the tank, and I found a tiny fried shrimp near the halogen bulbs. Four others presumably became shrimp-cocktail. The lone survivor -the biggest shrimp- is still holding his own, diligently doing his duty as the resident bottom-feeder, IE: aquarium janitor. I think he's worked out an arrangement with the fish: "Don't eat me, and I'll keep you ladies and gents clean." I've seen the fish swim over top of him and allow him to clean their fins and scales. That's one way to stay alive after all of your compadres became lunch!

It's been fascinating just kicking back and watching life unfold among the fishes. 

Thanksgiving ’10

We had Thanksgiving dinner at the house of our friends Jonna and Jeff- a tradition of many years, save for a few years where we've hosted Thanksgiving dinner at our place. As always, we had a great time and it was great to see many of our friends there. Thanksgiving means a lot to us this year; we're blessed with great families, fantastic friends, continued employment, and exciting new prospects on the horizon.

Today, we've just been taking it easy and enjoying the long Holiday weekend. No crazy 'Black Friday' sales for us this year. 

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